WOMEN'S MOODS - A HANDY GUIDE

Guys, is your woman moody? Don't mention the hormones! A bad day at work, a fight with a friend, family discord, or even a seemingly small disappointment can send a woman all over the emotional map. While it isn't your duty to make everything OK, it is worthwhile for you to uncover the root of the problem or do your best to try and not provoke her into an unnecessary argument. Here's how to make it out alive:

Mood: Distant. When you find yourself faced with a girl that doesn't want to talk, it's usually best to give her a little breathing room to pull herself together before you start digging into what's going on. If you push her to talk before she is ready not only will you not get the facts, you'll most likely wind up with a resentful and defensive woman on your hands.-

Mood: Depressed. If her mood swing is leaning toward emotional meltdown rather than raging rampage, your woman is probably going to be in need of comfort and encouragement rather than space and time alone. Try giving her a little physical but non-sexual affection to let her know that she is cared for and appreciated.

Mood: Angry. If her foul mood is a result of something you've said or done, apologize. But if it's out-of-the-blue rage that's stepping into your relationship, the last thing you want to do is apologize out of turn. Instead, probe cautiously to find out the actual source of the problem. Avoid making sweeping judgments or offering rash solutions.

Mood: Needy. Don't confuse a woman that is emotionally needy with one that is materially needy.The best way to demonstrate your support is to give a little in areas that are important to her. Has she been bugging you to go out for the evening, or shopping? Just showing a little bit of flexibility will go a long way.

Mood: Stressed. Whether the stress is justifiable in your mind or seemingly invented, you have two choices: Stay out of her way or do something to take some of the pressure off. Something as simple as doing a load of laundry or taking care of dinner can make a huge impact.

Mood: Deflated. A girlfriend that feels like she's lost the wind in her sails, whether because she's gained a bit of weight, lost a job or just isn't feeling her best, might prompt you to overcompliment in order to build her back up. Unfortunately, transparent compliments are useless and nothing you say can will change what she believes to be true. Instead, start by gently dismissing her self-conscious comments and avoid getting into a prolonged discussion on the topic.